Do I forgive or forget?

as a guy myself i want to tell you this. character is everything. feelings are nothing. nothing, but an emotional reaction and are almost always self serving. this guy's actions have shown him to be very dishonest and selfish and for a lengthy amount of time. without knowing all the particulars my first gut reaction is to tell you to completely end your ociation with this guy. where there is no trust there is no relationship. remember selfishness is always an equal opportunity offender. it sounds to me like this guy is out to make "number 1" happy at the expense of whoever might get in his way. be honest with yourself. it's hard to do sometimes i know, but ultimately you must face the reality of the situation. do so now on your own terms and don't wait till when you have no other choice. always aim to do the right thing. its value is only surped by its reward.