I think this in-law problem needs advice..please?

Frist of all, it's your husband's mother,,can't he talk to her,,tell her it's your child,what does he say about all of this?? On the other hand, maybe she thinks it's her home and has a right to say what goes on..It most never works for two women under these situations, to live under thev same roof..Both want/need to be in charge..Try to find some help w/baby-sitting so you can find a job and your own place..there are places and programes that help --State welfare and communities..In the long-run you'll be better off.and a strounger person. Your child will be better-off in a more peaseful home, where there is less stress.